Tag: cp communication
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Stop “apologizing”
Apologies assume: Someone hurt someone else. Someone did something wrong. Someone needs to fix the hurt in order to make things right. None of this makes sense. “I’m sorry I hurt you. What I did was wrong. I promise not to do it again. Please forgive me.” To this, I respond: You didn’t hurt me.…
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How to Speak Snowflake
In today’s inflammatory social media environment, it can be difficult to understand the language of snowflakes. Since it’s based entirely on blame and shame, they don’t talk about themselves…only you. Nonetheless, like all human language, Snowflake is fundamentally designed to express the needs and feelings of the speaker. I thought I’d give a brief guide…