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Podcast: Self-Defined Human

  • #33 – Loneliness and Social Anxiety

    #33 – Loneliness and Social Anxiety

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    #33 – Loneliness and Social Anxiety
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    Is loneliness good or bad? Social anxiety. Could you survive on a desert island? Should white people be singing spirituals? Finding flow in your speaking (like Rush Limbaugh). Amplifying your singing and speaking voices.

  • #32 – Blame isn’t the Problem

    #32 – Blame isn’t the Problem

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    #32 – Blame isn’t the Problem
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    When you get sufficiently advanced, spiritually speaking, you’re likely to view blame as a problem. As in, you shouldn’t do it. But, this is a misunderstanding. In this episode, I revisit the Drama Triangle and the Empowerment Dynamic, as well as Nonviolent Communication. The key phrase here is “it’s about function, not form.”

  • #31 – What’s the Deal with Michael Korman?, with David Servias

    #31 – What’s the Deal with Michael Korman?, with David Servias

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    #31 – What’s the Deal with Michael Korman?, with David Servias
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    Cancel culture in the world of collaborative piano! David Servias sat down to interview me about trouble brewing in some of the Facebook piano groups.

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    0:02:16 – What’s the deal with Michael Korman? He seems to have a gift for offending people.
    0:04:26 – Michael’s post in the Collaborative Piano group.
    0:07:29 – Did Michael know it would piss people off? Does he think it stops them from hearing?
    0:10:47 – Getting kicked out of other groups.
    0:14:55 – Is it bad to get kicked out?
    0:18:00 – When is it weird to kick people out of groups?
    0:20:13 – Are you intentionally pissing people off for fun?
    0:22:25 – What separates Michael from other piano teachers?
    0:30:43 – When people misunderstand and change the subject.
    0:36:52 – Having disagreements in good faith.
    0:46:19 – Should people be getting along? Is conflict good or bad?
    0:55:41 – When the mob constructs its own narrative. How and when to defend yourself.

  • #30 – 3 Stages to Learning Any Skill

    #30 – 3 Stages to Learning Any Skill

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    #30 – 3 Stages to Learning Any Skill
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    Why I deleted all my Instagram followers. Why responsibility is a good thing. The 3 stages in learning any kind of skill.

  • #29 – When Insight Strikes, with Blake Shields Abramovitz

    #29 – When Insight Strikes, with Blake Shields Abramovitz

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    #29 – When Insight Strikes, with Blake Shields Abramovitz
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    Blake Shields Abramovitz is a meditation teacher and an actor, and this is a followup to our conversation from October of 2020, which you can hear in Episode 7: When Meditators Get Cancelled.

    In this episode, we talk about piano playing, awakening, multiple selves, what happens as you go down the path of insight, psychedelics, and acting.

    I hope you enjoy it.

    0:01:50 – Cancel culture at meditation centers, freedom of speech
    0:11:50 – Piano teachers giving Michael a hard time (again), mob mentality
    0:16:25 – Michael’s piano playing ability, what role piano plays in Blake’s life
    0:19:51 – Breaking the rules in piano playing, how Michael developed his way of playing
    0:23:36 – Why singing is hard to learn
    0:29:10 – How singing leads to awakening
    0:35:07 – How to talk about awakening with people who haven’t had experiences like that
    0:38:16 – The wisdom function
    0:41:54 – Michael’s nostalgia for a creative period of time
    0:47:08 – What intentions do piano teachers have?
    0:54:04 – What if you just mess around on the piano? Multiple selves
    0:56:47 – The Karate Kid
    0:58:58 – Technical meditation vs. intellectual meditation
    1:07:11 – Going down the road of insight, getting less attached
    1:10:10 – Moments when things shifted for Blake
    1:13:38 – What’s the deal with psychedelics?
    1:45:48 – Acting
    1:54:47 – Meditation for actors

  • #28 – Anti-Perfectionism and Real Life

    #28 – Anti-Perfectionism and Real Life

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    #28 – Anti-Perfectionism and Real Life
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    Why it’s easier to perform well in real life than when you’re practicing. Anti-perfectionism. Different types of personalities. Sometimes adrenaline is what makes you do a good job. It’s just conservation of energy.

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